Pregnant Men on Ladders:
Comic Elements in Plato's Symposium
Elizabeth Belfiore
University of Minnesota
In Plato's Symposium,
Alcibiades compares Socrates to the hollow statues of ridiculous and hubristic
sileni that open up to reveal images of the gods. Socrates' words, he says,
resemble the man. On the outside, they are like the skin of a hubristic satyr,
but on the inside they are most divine and contain the most images of virtue. In
this paper, I argue that, just as Alcibiades' image invites us to "open
up" Socrates' words and deeds, so Socrates' great speech itself, and
the other claims made by the philosopher within the dialogue, encourage the
reader to examine critically the ideas presented in this speech. I
focus in particular on two elements in the speech attributed to Diotima that
are especially noteworthy for their combination of the ridiculous with serious
ideas: the metaphor of the pregnant lover and that of the ladder of eros.
According
to Diotima, all people, both men and women, are pregnant in body and soul.
That man who is pregnant in soul searches for a beloved, and, consorting
with him, "gives birth to and generates that with which he has long
been pregnant" (209c2-3). As many scholars have shown, this metaphor
has a serious philosophical function within Diotima's account of the activities
of the soul in seeking and creating spiritual beauty. Nevertheless,
Diotima uses a very strange and comic metaphor, that does not fit the basic
facts of biology. Moreover, there are good reasons for believing that
Socrates' audience would have found the idea of male pregnancy absurd and
even offensive. In Euripides' Bacchae (286-97), Teiresias asks Pentheus
if he laughs at the story of the "double birth" of Dionysus,
to whom Zeus gave birth after sewing the fetus into his thigh. Moreover,
to suggest that a man in a homosexual relationship was pregnant was a serious
insult, attributing to him the disgraceful, passive, feminine role
in intercourse. According to Plutarch (Amatorius 768F), the
tyrant Periander was killed by his beloved after Periander asked him, "Are
you pregnant yet?" Diotima's idea that it is the erastes who
is pregnant is even more offensive, for it casts in a ridiculous and humiliating
light the active partner in the relationship that is idealized by all of
the symposiasts, and by Diotima herself. Moreover, the metaphor might
be taken as specifically ridiculing Pausanias and his eromenos Agathon,
the tragedian who might be said to be "pregnant" with poetry, like
Homer, Hesiod, and the other "good poets" (poiêtas .
. . agathous), mentioned by Diotima.
In another
passage (210a-212a), Diotima uses the metaphor of the ladder to
characterize the ascent from lower to higher objects of eros. This
passage raises many important philosophical issues about the nature of desire,
and about metaphysics and epistemology. Here also, however, the text gives
us good reasons for being cautious in affirming that the ideas expressed
in this passage represent the sincerely held beliefs of Socrates or of Plato. For
one thing, the comic image of male pregnancy is retained throughout, from
the lowest to the highest level. Diotima's language even suggests that, at
the highest rung of the ladder, the lover has sexual intercourse with
the highest form of beauty. If this literal interpretation
is rejected as absurd, what is it that is supposed to happen at the top of
the ascent? The sexual imagery is also puzzling at the lower rungs of the
ladder, where Diotima states that the lover must become "a lover of
all beautiful bodies." If she is advising the lover to become
sexually promiscuous, the Socrates of the Symposium does not appear
to have followed her advice.
Why might
Plato have constructed the most important speech of his major character in
this way? The speech as a whole stimulates the reader to seek the truth,
while realizing that neither Socrates nor Diotima gives it to us in a neat
package of "teachings." What the speech does make clear is that
we will not find the wisdom we seek as long as we share the lack of learning
(amathia) exhibited by the first five speakers, who believe that they
have no need to seek wisdom because they already possess it. To make progress
we must, instead, become philosophers, like Diotima's Eros, who knows that
he lacks wisdom, and for this very reason, desires to acquire it.